Grammie, Why’s Your Picture On This Book?

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My three granddaughters with Grammie’s book.

You can see by the picture my proof copy arrived. It was a surreal moment. I stared at the cover. Ran my hand over the picture. Turned it over to see my face staring back at me. Opened the pages and read snippets. I wrote these words. Somehow it doesn’t seem possible that the story I labored over is now between the covers of a book.

My granddaughter, Victoria said it best. “Grammie , why is your picture on this book?”

Books are something we have. Something we take for granted. My grandchildren read their stories with no thought of the process involved in writing them. Most author pictures are strangers to the reader.

The revelation comes to us. Books are written by real people when we know the author. People have told me how excited they are to know a “real” author. My minimal celebrity status feel weird.

I’m thrilled to have a book published. But I know this is only the beginning. I don’t want to be a one-book wonder. I know my fame lasts only until the reader finds another author to follow. Unlike movie stars, no one will remember what I look like. They may vaguely remember the title. And in the pool of millions of authors, I am a raindrop in the ocean.

Still, it’s nice to know my efforts are recognized.

I love this story and hope others do too. That would be my greatest accolade. Someday my granddaughter will have enough reading skills under her belt to read this story if she chooses too. I hope the connection will help her understand why my picture is on the back cover. I hope by then to have many more stories with my face smiling at perspective readers.

Secrets and Charades releases March 15th. You can order it on Amazon in either paperback or kindle. Click here.secret-charades-front-cover

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Guest Blog: WRITING FROM PERSONAL EXPERIENCE

Welcome Guest Blogger Tez Brooks as he shares from the heart about writing from personal experience.

Author Tez Brooks

Author Tez Brooks

You want me to do what God?

I was struggling with the concept of sharing my journey as a single father. It placed me in a very vulnerable position and I wasn’t comfortable with that.

Still, I knew God had been gently nudging me toward this for years. There was little out there in the way of self-help books for divorced fathers, let alone with a Christian worldview.

I had written plenty of articles from personal experiences that were amazing or fun. I never had a problem sharing my life stories if they were positive. But when I finally did begin writing about my failed marriage it felt as if I were digging through a box of cat litter for someone else’s car keys.

Everything within me screamed, Why should I have to do this? I found my own keys long ago. It’s up to each guy to dig through this doo-doo on his own!

As I pressed on however, I learned the secret to writing from painful experience. It not only helps others in their journey, it brings healing to the storyteller.

It got easier the more I re-visited some of the memories and as each chapter was completed, I was reminded of 1 Peter 4:10:

“Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms.”

Was my trial a gift?

Somehow it had turned into one. After being removed from that season of life, remarrying, starting a second family—yeah, the recollections I unpacked and wrote about had been transformed into a gift by God’s unbelievable grace.

My critique group and my editors encouraged me onward, impressing upon me the importance of the message I was communicating.

One of the best pieces of advice I received was to include statistical research and stories from other people, enriching the message of hope for dads.

But how was I to handle any of these stories without slandering others? What about facts that included my ex-wife?

One author friend of mine suggested I run those portions by my children, who were now adults, asking if they felt I communicated anything inappropriate about their mother. I found that to be an excellent idea.

When it came to stories of other men, I just changed the name to protect the individual. Before I knew it, I had a very real, authentic manuscript that didn’t cut corners on details but still protected everyone’s reputation.

The Single Dad Detour (Kregel 2015) hit shelves a year later and my head still hasn’t stopped spinning at the wonder of it all. This week alone I have been invited on three radio programs to discuss the book. I was able to minister to a dad who called in to the station asking for help. What a blessing for me.

Although I had been writing for decades, I had no intention of scribing my painful divorce, single parenting days or the mistakes I made as I attempted to navigate through those years. What an honor to be used by the Lord to speak into lives of men who need to be challenged and encouraged.

What about you? What might God be calling you to write about? Are you struggling to re-visit an experience you’d much rather leave well enough alone?

Writing from personal experience may not feel good at first, and God wont force you. But I believe God has beautiful plans for those who are willing to take a risk and watch him turn something mundane or even unpleasant into a testimony of God’s grace.

4360 drive final.indd Tez Brooks latest book the Single Dad Detour is available at Barnes & Noble and Amazon. You can find more help for fathers at EverySingleDad.com

Tez and his wife are full-time missionaries with the Jesus Film Project (a ministry of Cru) where he manages a team of journalists. If you’d like to know how you can contribute to their ministry contact tez.brooks@cru.org

If you have questions for Tez about writing from personal experience leave a comment below.

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My Promised Interview with Carol McAdams Moore Interview

Just as I promised I have invited Carol McAdams Moore to my blog to pick her brain and have a fun giveaway of her devotionals Dare U To Open This Book and Just Sayin’. You can see my reviews here.

Carol Welcome to Writer’s Patchwork. After receiving your devotionals to do a review I was so impressed with these delightful books I wanted to have you come and share the how, the why and the inspiration behind these devotionals.  So, please ignore the clutter in my office and let’s get started.

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What kind of adventures have you encountered on your journey to publication?

Thank you for having me today, Cindy! I have been on the road to this kind of publication for about 12 years. When I attended my first writers conference (Write-to-Publish in Wheaton, IL), I was unpublished. I soon latched on to the idea of building my experience through writing articles, fillers, and curriculum. Now I attend Write-to-Publish every June. It is more than a writing conference for me. It is kind of a check in time with God to make sure I am following His will for this writing journey. That journey, like any path with God, is definitely an adventure. 

 

Just Sayin'

How did you come up with the idea for these creative devotionals?

I teach fourth and fifth graders during the week. Several years ago, I noticed that many of my students came back from the Scholastic Book Fair with books that shared a similar format – something that asked kids a question or gave them a prompt to write or draw about. When I saw how engaged the kids were in the books, I knew that I wanted to write devotionals with the same format. God’s hand was evident in the next step when I contacted Zonderkidz. The editor had been looking at a similar book (Wreck This Journal) and hoped to publish a devo for tweens with the same format.

Cute cover don't you think.

Cute cover don’t you think.

What is it about this age group that intrigues you?

I love that kids who are 8-12 are confident readers, ready to explore the Bible on their own. It is a critical time (just before junior high). I love to watch kids read the Bible and discover its value for their own lives.

What do you hope kids come away with working through these devotionals?

It says it right on the back covers – to follow Jesus. Best. Idea. Ever.

I love your covers. How did you go about choosing the right ones that would reach out and grab kids attention.

Thank you, Cindy! I love the covers, too. They are the work of the awesome design team at Zonderkidz!

I have to know—did you work on these book simultaneously or one at a time?

At any given step, I worked on one of them at a time. For example, initially I chose the Bible verses for one of them, but if something jumped out at me for the other one I would take a little detour and work on that one for a brief time. Then, I followed that process throughout the publication steps.

Do you have plans for more kids devotionals?

I am waiting to hear back on several new ideas. Right now, I can’t say more than that. Stay tuned to my blog or my facebook wall for updates!

Can you pass on a few tips about writing kids devotionals for those who may have the same passion for kids growing in Christ.

I would encourage those who want to write devotionals for kids to spend a lot of time with them. Listen to how they talk. Listen to what they talk about. If at all possible, spend time with kids in different settings. For example, the same child will be different at home, at school, at church, and in the neighborhood.

Another thing I would suggest is to make note of what kids are reading.

Last, invest in some good writing tools. I use a child’s thesaurus, a children’s disctionary, The Children’s Writer’s Word Book, and the Flip Dictionary to name a few.

Great ideas. You really have your hand on the pulse of  tweens and it shows in your devotionals.

Any future books in the works?

Again, I am waiting to hear back on several new ideas. Besides writing nonfiction, I am working on several fiction ideas.

How can we contact you?

I love to hear from readers! Let’s connect!

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And for those who don’t win in the drawing where can they order you books.

Dare U 2 Open This Book and Just Sayin’ are available at Family Christian Stores, Lifeway Stores, and at Barnes and Noble. Also, future readers (or their parents or grandparents) can order the books on Amazon or directly from Zondervan.

Okay, here’s your chance. Leave a comment for Carol about writing devotions, tweens or her writing journey or just tell her you want in the drawing. Each name will be entered in a drawing for either Dare U To Open This Book or Just Sayin’.

To be eligible for the drawing you must comment on this blog post not my FB page.